A Slight Pause…

Sometimes in life, you just need to stop and catch your breath. That’s how I’m feeling right now.  These last few months have been completely overwhelming and I feel like I’ve been running on empty for the last couple weeks.  I’ve let myself down in the process, as I was really fired up and felt completely ready to tackle this new blog and get my new business up and running.  Fortunately (?) I still haven’t really brought in much of any type of readership, so at least I’m not letting a bunch of people down.  No offense meant to my 2 subscribers – I thank you for following me, and I want you to know that I do appreciate it.

I’m not done yet. I’ve just been chasing too many things at once and managed to lose focus.  Not to worry though, I recognize what’s going on and instead of throwing up my arms and saying “forget it, it’s too much!” I’m going to hit the pause button for a spell, collect my thoughts and get back to work here, there and everywhere.

Thanks for the patience!

Thanks for reading,



National Preparedness Month!

As most everyone knows by now, September is National Preparedness Month. Now ordinarily any time the government tries to push an agenda I am skeptical at best, but this is one action I can certainly get behind.  In fact I go out of my to promote the government program despite any other reservations I have toward them in general.

The materials they (gov’t agencies) produce are extremely generalized and basic, but I actually believe this to be a good approach to preparedness for the masses. Why?  Because I believe preparedness is one of those things where something IS better than nothing in every circumstance and this is a good way to bring people’s attention to it without scaring the bejeezus out of ‘em.   What the government is asking of its citizenry is not much; put aside some extra food and water to get you and your family through a few days’ disruption, make a plan for communications with your family or group, and make sure you have any special needs, such as maintenance medications or pets, accounted for.  These are all really simple, inexpensive steps we can all take without disrupting our lives or taking on a new “lifestyle”.   In my opinion, this is a great move and I support it 100%.  Imagine how much better ANY city or town could get through a crisis – whether it’s a hurricane or tornado or ice-storm or earthquake or whatever the disaster du jour is – if everyone in that town had a few days’ worth of food on hand, and their basic necessities taken care of.  When it comes to emergencies, if you aren’t in a position to take care of yourself you are a liability.  Why anyone would consciously choose to become a liability, essentially putting their lives in someone else’s hands, is beyond me.

This year they are actually going a step further, encouraging people to get to know their neighbors and participate in Community Emergency Response Team (C.E.R.T.) training or other community based projects. Again, I must agree with the government on this as much as it pains me.  I went through my local C.E.R.T. training program about 5 years ago and from my perspective it was invaluable.  I went in thinking I had a really good handle on “all things preparedness” only to find that I didn’t know nearly as much as I thought I did.  On top of that, getting to know not only your neighbors but your local first responders in this setting was an exceptional opportunity.  I referred numerous people to that same course I had completed and every single one of them expressed they’d had a very positive experience with it.  I HIGHLY recommend you find your closest C.E.R.T. unit and attend their training.  If your area doesn’t have one, contact your local fire or police department and inquire about starting one.

And for those of you that maybe came into the preparedness fold some time ago and have your basics covered, take time this month to re-check and organize your preps. Rotate foods that are near expiration, make sure your insurance, medical, and legal documents (such as ID’s, passports, licenses, etc.) are up to date and in order.  Hold a family fire drill or shut your power down for a day to take a test run of your back-up plans.  No matter how much you’ve done already, there is nearly always some room for improvement.  And if there really is NOTHING else you can do to get yourself prepared (highly unlikely, but possible I suppose) then reach out to your community and see what you can do to help get others on board.

In life I really do take a “grey man” approach to just about everything, but when it comes to preparedness I feel an evangelical* approach is what we need to take.  I’m not saying to tell everyone what you have in any kind of detail, but just to start the conversation.  Hollywood nonsense like Doomsday Preppers and some of the whack-a-doos on YouTube have really helped to give preparedness a bad name, to where the “average” citizen thinks it’s crazy.  But after seeing the pictures of people waiting in lines that are city blocks long just to get something as basic as water, common sense will tell you that it’s crazy NOT to take care of the basics at the very least.

Take care of yourselves out there!

Thanks for reading,



* evangelical


marked by ardent or zealous enthusiasm for a cause.

A little extra, just in case…

Today I want to talk a little bit about keeping “a little extra” on hand for emergencies. Recently my family had a sudden and unexpected upheaval that put us in a pretty dire financial situation.  The details are unimportant, but suffice it to say we had a temporary reduction in income by about 75% that lasted 3 months or so.  It was grim and probably the tightest spot we’ve been in during our adult lives, but fortunately we’d been preparing for the unexpected and that really helped hold things together.

Over the last couple years we’ve made a point of buying a few extras when we do our grocery shopping as well as strategic bulk purchases at Costco as funds would allow. Thank goodness we did!  Canned foods are the obvious thing to have on hand, but we also had lots of rice, sugar, flour, butter, cooking oils, tea, and a few other things I’m probably forgetting.  Likewise, we had a mass of toilet paper, paper towels, ammonia, bleach, soap, toothpaste, feminine hygiene supplies and the like.

Finding places to store all this stuff in our tiny apartment was challenging to say the least, but I cannot put into words how much our overall stress level was reduced by having these items already on hand when the s— hit the fan. It was bad enough worrying about how we were going to pay the rent and insurance and the power bill – not having the “How are we going to eat?” specter of doom looming over us as well made a huge difference in how we managed the crisis.

There were of course still expenses for food and things, but they were slashed to nearly nothing since we were able to dip into our emergency stores. It has been an eye opening experience to say the least.  One thing that we found – quite to our surprise – was that we actually started eating BETTER during this crisis because going out for meals simply wasn’t an option.  Typically we don’t eat much in the way of pre-packaged type foods anyway, but we do have a tendency to get lazy with our hectic schedules and we get take-out fairly often (I admit it, I’m a pizza FIEND!) and would usually splurge on a nice meal out once a week or so.  Luckily for me, my wife is an excellent cook and she definitely took on the brunt of the labor in that department but it was without doubt a family affair.  My daughter and I did a lot more dishes that we’re used to doing and we both helped with food prep and even cooked the meals every now and again.  But, my goodness, we have eaten some AMAZING meals over the past few months that cost us pennies compared to eating out and we have been eating healthier foods as an added bonus.  I’m going to have to say this has been an absolute silver lining to a bunch of storm clouds!

This was one of those “events” that you don’t hear people talking about too much in the preparedness arena. Income loss isn’t nearly as exciting as preparing for a foreign invasion or a zombie apocalypse, but it is an actual, realistic disruption that can have a deep impact on your lives if you aren’t ready for it.  Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t put things away for emergencies thinking this might happen to me – I was more concerned about earthquakes and/or flooding with the possible pandemic event thrown in there for good measure.  I’m not telling you about this as a way to pat myself on the back and tell you how I’m smart enough to think of all the possibilities, I wasn’t.  This was simply a stroke of luck that I was preparing for emergency situations and my first place of focus was on food and hygiene.  Had I been one of those other types of preparedness folks like you see on TV and had put all my efforts into a fortified bunker or a personal armory with thousands of projectile rounds I would have been sunk.

The bottom line is, you don’t know what is going to happen.  It’s important to think about what might happen, and even some possible scenarios, but life loves to throw a curveball at you and nobody can be prepared for every possible eventuality.  Think about the probability of different types of emergencies and go from there.  It’s more likely that you’ll lose a job, or even be out of work due to injury or illness than someone setting off a “dirty bomb” in your town.  Your car’s transmission will likely blow out before the UN marches and puts us into a New World Order…  I could go on but I think you get the point.

I firmly believe the preparedness is the responsibility of every adult, period. There really is no “free lunch” and you have no right to expect someone else to take care of you.  And we’ve all seen how well the Government does when they step into to help…  It’s on you, folks.  Take responsibility for you and yours and spread the word.  If something happens to you and your family you’ll recover faster and suffer fewer consequences.  If something happens to a friend or neighbor, you’ll be in a position to lend a hand (if you choose to do so) without putting yourself in a bind.  And if it’s something larger-scale, like your town or county or state even, you will not be an additional burden to those that are trying to help the recovery.  Really, there is no down side.

For me and mine, things are just about getting back to normal as far as the financial side of things go and I can guarantee that one of the first things I’m going to do when we’re fully back on our feet is to re-stock ALL the foods and hygiene products that we used and put up just a little extra, fill in the gaps where we were light, so to speak.  You know, just in case…

Thanks for reading,


Perfection: The Enemy of Good Enough

I am a firm believer in the adage that if something is worth doing, it’s worth doing right. But I also believe that sometimes good enough is better than nothing, in most cases anyway.  There is something to be said about simply taking care of business and getting things done.

It pays to be adaptive and to make the best of what you’ve got to work with at the time. I have put off a lot of projects over the years because I wanted things to be “just right” and for whatever reason – usually an issue of time or finances or skill – the projects simply never got done.  In looking back I can see that in the big picture I would have probably been better off with the “good enough” approach.  In all those instances I let perfect get in the way of good enough and ended up with nothing as a result.

I’m older now, and I like to think wiser as well, and I’ve come to the realization that “perfect” is truly in the eye of the beholder and it is really more a matter of opinion than fact. What is perfect to me might not be perfect to you and vice-versa.  You might hate my “perfect” recipe.  Your “perfect” tool might feel weird in my hands.  My “perfect” home décor might make you cringe…  See what I mean?  Perfection is subjective.  Don’t let it stand in the way of what you want and what you need to accomplish.

This is not to say you should do sloppy work or cut corners – especially if it happens to be a life safety issue, but I’m of a mind now that something IS better than nothing. If you embark on a project or a purchase and it’s the best you can do right now, then that’s going to have to be good enough.  Points for effort and all that stuff, right?

A man that’s been a huge influence on me over the last few years is fond of saying “Just get s#it done” and it took me a while to come around to his way of thinking. But yeah, in the long run it’s better to get s#it done than to sit around thinking about all the reasons you can’t do it now.  Analysis paralysis is a very real phenomenon and I have let it get in the way far too often.  Don’t let that happen to you!  As someone else once said to me “You’re gonna think yourself to death!”  Sometimes you just gotta say enough is enough and do the best you can today and stop worrying about the perfect way to do something.

Thanks for reading!


On Perseverance

Perseverance (noun): Determined continuation; steady and continued action or belief, usually over a long period and especially despite difficulties or setback.

Life can be hard. For some it’s harder than others, but I can’t think of a single person I’ve ever known that hasn’t had to deal with some form of adversity or another.  I’m sure there are some out there that have had an easy go of it, because there are always exceptions to the rules, but they are so few and far between that I’ve never actually met one.

So we know that at one point or another, something in your life will go wrong. That is pretty much a given.  What we need to focus on is not the possibility of the dark clouds putting your life in the shadows, but our goals and our plans, and what we need to do to make those things happen.  We need to persevere.

In my professional life I’m always in a “worst case scenario” frame of mind because I need to think of every possible bad thing that could happen and plan for the aftermath to keep my clients safe and secure. That is my job and I take it seriously.  A lot of the time it can be really hard to snap out of that type of thinking and when you’re always in that state of mind it can easily slip into a feeling of helplessness or hopelessness.   The thing is though, no matter how much planning and pondering you do, no matter how much you dwell on the prevention strategies, bad things can still happen.  It’s easier to just accept the fact that sometimes things are simply out your control and recognize that sometimes you have no choice but to roll with the punches.

I have a big problem with the doom & gloom type of preparedness folks because I don’t think fear mongering is a good way to get people to “wake up” to the need to be prepared. In fact I think overall these types of people do more of a disservice to their fellow man than anything.  It’s one thing to acknowledge the fact that things can and do go wrong and to prepare to deal with things as they come, it’s quite another to try and scare people into your way of thinking or to devote your entire life to preparing for the end of the world as we know it and forgetting to actually live the life you have when things aren’t going wrong.  And frankly, when you approach preparing to deal with whatever may come from a place of fear, you are probably not going to do the things that actually make sense in the world as we currently know it.

Whenever an unexpected disturbance happens, you basically have two choices. You can curl up in a ball and wait for “the end” or you can dust yourself off and move forward with your life.  You can give up or you can persevere.  I believe a lot of people think giving up is the easier route, but when you have to live with your decisions, giving up will come back to haunt you.  And I know that sometimes it’s much easier said than done, to just keep moving forward, but at least when you take that route there will be an eventual payoff as opposed to wallowing in despair and self-pity which gets you nothing. The old cliché of “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” holds some truth to it.  The more you strive for self-reliance and independence the easier it becomes to bounce back from the bad stuff.

If you have goals you are working toward and something derails those plans, don’t give up on them. Assess your situation, adjust your plans, adapt and get yourself back on track.  In short, persevere.  We’re all capable of it, we just need to convince ourselves of that capability and get on with living life.

Thanks for reading!



Safety Basics – FIRE

There are many aspects of preparedness that make perfect sense if you take the time to think about it, and I understand that once you come to the realization that you aren’t prepared figuring out what to do can be completely overwhelming.  But as I’ve said before in these articles, you must learn to walk before you can run.  It is hard to quell the panic because there is so much that “needs” to be done and seemingly so little time and/or resources. I get it. I really do. But panic gets you nowhere. What I see most overlooked is just good ol’ common sense personal safety in the home.

So let’s just STOP right here a minute and breathe. Look at it this way, whatever you’ve been doing (or not doing) has gotten you this far, right? Anything you can improve upon is going to be, well, an improvement. That being the case, let’s take a look at one of the most basic, yet common issues that can come your way. No matter where you live, no matter what your socioeconomic status, no matter what political party you belong to, etc. your life can be changed dramatically by fire.

Yep, fire…one of man’s first tools. We’ve harnessed it for centuries and used it in countless ways and yet it still shows us lowly humans who’s the boss almost daily.

For example, did you know that in 2014 there were over 1.2 million fires reported in the U.S. alone?  Those fires led to 3,275 civilian deaths and over 15,000 injuries.  In other words, nearly 20,000 people that year faced life-changing events, from house fires.  Not financial collapse or the New World Order, no Zombies on the march. House fires.  Just think about that for a minute and let it sink in…

When is the last time you checked your smoke detectors?  Not only do they need to be checked routinely for battery replacement, but smoke detectors themselves also have expiration dates.  This is something most people aren’t aware of.  If you haven’t checked yours in a while, do it today. It takes two minutes and no tools or specialized equipment. Hit the test button and make sure it sounds. Then look for the detector’s expiration date. If it makes noise and it isn’t expired, you’re good to go. If it doesn’t sound, replace the batteries. Almost every smoke detector I’ve ever seen takes a 9 volt battery (you know, the little rectangular ones) but your mileage may vary. If the expiration date is within 6 months, make note of it and pick one up the next time you do a little shopping at the hardware store, department store or even on Amazon. You should be able to get a new detector for 10 bucks or less – cheap insurance. Yes, you can certainly pay more, but in this instance I’m of a mind that it’s better to have something than nothing when it comes to life safety.

Now let me ask you, do you have any fire extinguishers?  Do you know off the top of your head or do you need to think about it for a second?  Can you easily grab one, or is it behind a bunch of stuff that will need to be knocked out of the way?  Do your spouse and/or children know where the fire extinguishers are located?  Do they know how to use one if necessary or when NOT to use them? When is the last time you checked the extinguisher to see if it is still good?  Some extinguishers are disposable and have expiration dates; others can be routinely serviced and can last for years.

Have you made a family/household evacuation plan?  If so, have you ever practiced it?  Nothing can make a minor emergency spiral out of control faster than not knowing what to do in said emergency.  Everyone needs to know at least two ways to get out of the home and where to go once they’re out.  I’m not talking about “bugging out”; I’m talking about evacuating your house due to fire.   You’ve made it out of your home, but the street is blocked off, there are emergency vehicles everywhere, maybe news vans and reporters and of course the curious neighbors and passers-by.  Where do you go?  How do your kids find you if this happens while they are away from the house and the LEO (Law Enforcement Officer) blocking the road won’t let them through? At the very least you should practice your evacuation plan at least once a year.  The more you practice, the more your response becomes automatic.  And besides, things change.  Another example; my family’s “muster point” should we need to evacuate is in a little courtyard at a small shopping center down the block.  This worked great for 10 years, until suddenly the courtyard was fenced off completely for construction and was off limits for a year… It’s important to keep things up to date and even better to have a Plan B, just in case.

My point is this, we all live with danger, every day of our lives.  There are many things we can do to lower our risk and shorten recovery time, but you have to identify them ahead of time. That is why we all participate in this thing called preparedness! Sure, smoke detectors aren’t exciting and nobody is going to care about the picture you posted of your freshly serviced fire extinguishers on your social media pages, but these are simple things that will most likely do more to save your life and the lives of those you care about than the latest tactical gear.

It’s easy to get caught up with the preparedness “stuff”, I know because I’m guilty of it too.  And I’m not saying the gear and the long term storage foods and all those other goodies aren’t great to have around.  I’m a firm believer in the better-to-have-it-and-not-need-it-than-need-it-and-not-have-it camp but the fact of the matter is that you and your loved ones are far more likely to face a house fire, a natural disaster or some other mundane crisis than you will need to grab your B.O.B. and your AR-15 and head off into the great unknown to fight the Illuminati.

If you’re one of the newly awakened, take a step back, a deep breath and ask yourself “what type of disaster is the most likely to happen to ME?” and go from there.  Apply a little common sense and get your house in order before you spend all your time and resources on the survival toys that are so popular these days.  After all, nothing is going to ruin your day more than having all your hard earned preps lost forever for want of a $6 smoke detector.  It’s often said that skills trump gear nearly every time and I believe that.  I also believe that critical thinking is a skill and one that is under used by many.  If you really think about it, I believe you will agree that preparing your home for the everyday, common emergency will give you a much better chance of survival in the long run than say, another hank of paracord or the latest and greatest gadget to show up on the magazine covers.

Prepare smart, with serious consideration for your location and personal needs and before long the overwhelming panic will subside. And once you got your home base covered, you’ll be ready to move on to your next preparedness phase with a clear head.

The Prepared Home Analysis, Part ll

In Part l, we began the analysis of your home from the outside, looking in. Before we went any deeper into the subject, I thought it would be good to first make sure you can get in and out of your home safely, and reduce or eliminate any obvious hazards to yourself, your visitors and the home itself.  In this segment, now that you’ve made it safely to your front door, we’re going to actually take a look inside.

Starting at your front door, take a look inside the door jamb at the metal catch for the door knob and/or deadbolt. Is it secure?  Loose?  Missing a screw?  All your door hardware should be fully attached and secure.  Also, do you have any secondary locks aside from the deadbolt?  Simple flip over latches are inexpensive, easy to install and while not foolproof, are difficult to bypass and can certainly slow someone down trying to gain entrance.  Again, door security is a very in-depth subject that I will address in a separate article; these are the easy to spot, easy to fix things.

How about a peep hole? Everyone should have one as I discussed in the first part of this series, but take a good look through yours and really observe what you see.  How far to the left and right can you see?  Is it dirty, causing a blurred view?  Is it at a height that is usable for you and everyone that resides with you?  If not, consider adding one either higher or lower, depending on your needs.  Are their plants or trees limiting its view?  If so, trim them back until your view is unimpeded.

Now, standing at your threshold and looking into your home, what do you see? In this instance we’re looking for anything of value that would entice someone to pay you another visit when the home is (hopefully) unoccupied so they can steal it.  TVs, video game consoles, computers, stereo equipment, gun cabinets, personal safes, purses or wallets left on a table near your front door, cell phones and tablets, etc.  While it’s true you can’t hide everything, you should at the very least try to make high value items a little less obvious to the casual observer standing at your front door.  There have been numerous stories of ne’er-do-wells posing as door-to-door sales people or handymen looking for work when what they’ve really been doing is casing your home, looking for easy pickings.  You don’t want to be on that list.

The same can be said for garages. I see people that leave their garage door open all day, every day.  Everything is on display – bicycles, tools, sporting equipment, electronics and instruments, all sorts of things.  In my opinion, this is an extremely bad practice.  If your garage is easily seen from the street, don’t keep your door open any more than you absolutely need to.  And if your garage is connected directly to your home, you absolutely do not want to keep that big door open.  That is an easy invitation to trouble.  As an example, not 2 miles from where I work – which is a very upscale town, with an extremely low crime rate – a family had left their garage door open AND the door from the garage into the house unlocked, which proved to be the perfect entrance for 3 armed criminals to sneak in, pistol-whip and tie up the family and make off with an undisclosed amount of cash and jewelry.  Fortunately the family lived to tell the tale, but it could have gone much, much worse.  A closed garage door could have prevented the entire episode.  Think about that and let it sink in a minute.

In general criminals are opportunists. They are looking for an easy payday.  By making things hard on them, there is a good chance they will move on to a softer target.

OK, now that we’ve looked at things “through the eyes of a criminal”, let’s take a look around at the more basic safety issues.

First, check your flooring. Transitions from one type of surface onto another are a common place for trips and falls.  Make sure you’ve got the lowest threshold between the two as you possibly can and that any transition pieces are solidly in place.  Next are “area rugs”.  These things are notorious for tripping people up.  Take precautions if using these in your home.  There are a few different items you can use depending on what type of floor the rug is on.  I’ve seen double-sided tapes that are made specifically for this purpose as well as rubber underlayment mats that are very thin but have a surprising grip and keep your rugs from moving under you.  I’ve also seen discreet clips that work for securing an area rug on top of carpet.  Take a look around and see what best fits your situation.

Next up on the list, look for other tripping hazards. Things like interior extension cords, lamp cords and charging cords for phones are easily tripped over because they are usually a neutral color (unlike exterior extension cords which are primarily bright orange or yellow).  Make sure you don’t have cords hanging down in the primary path of travel.  Other simple things that can ruin your day are toys on the floor (whether from the kids or the pets) or misplaced furniture that encroaches on the path of travel.  While you may be used to taking the one odd step to avoid it because it’s been there so long, a guest might not notice something that only slightly protrudes into their path.  However it only takes a slight protrusion to cause a fall.

Another thing to be aware of is open cabinet drawers or doors. Leaving a low drawer open is an invitation to a serious fall and/or injury.  Likewise, I have seen someone stand up right into the corner of an open upper kitchen cabinet door and open their scalp bad enough to need stiches.  It seems ridiculous I know, but these kinds of accidents happen all the time and more often than not, they are completely avoidable.

One last thing to consider for this part of your Prepared Home Analysis is what you have on any shelves or bookcases throughout your home or things in general hanging from your walls. If you are the proud recipient of your bowling league’s Bowler of the Year trophy, consisting of a custom engraved bowling ball and other goodies, don’t place this on a high shelf.  This is especially true if you have young children or pets in the home.  When deciding where to put things on your shelves, ask yourself “what would happen if this thing fell on someone’s head?”  If the answer is that it could possibly crush said persons head, then don’t place it high enough to do damage should it fall off.  Likewise, if you wish to hang Aunt Edna’s prized commemorative plate collection on your wall, make sure to use the appropriate hardware to do so.  There is a whole world out there of anchors and specialty screws and hangars for such things and it pays to use them.  You don’t want to trust your safety to just some scrawny nail poked into the drywall.  If you are hanging a poster or a lightweight decoration, such as a paper lantern or something I wouldn’t worry too much about it, but if there is glass involved and/or any substantial weight, you owe it to yourself and those you care about, to hand these things safely, with the correct hardware.

Alright folks, there are a few more Baby Steps for you to follow to help get yourself better prepared. Next time I’ll focus on fire safety – a BIG topic.

As always, thanks for reading!


Celebrate the small victories!

Sometimes it is the small victories in life that need celebrating. That is how I am feeling today.  A problem presented itself so I took matters into my own hands, got down to business and had a successful outcome.  I’m here to tell you that you can too!

In this particular case, it was an automotive issue. I noticed on the way to work that the ol’ truck just didn’t “feel right”.  On the commute home it had gone from not feeling right to shaking so badly I thought my fillings would come loose.  It was one of those white-knuckle rides where I was just hoping and pleading the beast would get me home and not leave me stranded on the side of the highway – which, thankfully it did.

The old me would’ve thrown my hands in the air and let loose a string of foul-mouthed insults toward my automobile. Then I would have figured out a way to get the heap across town to my mechanic and get a ride to work for however long it was in the shop, fretting over the call with the “estimate” on the repairs that I hadn’t budgeted for.  That, my friends, is a stressful situation to find yourself in.

This time however, I first thanked my ride ever so lovingly for getting me home. Then I set about diagnosing the problem.  I dug out my OBD (On Board Diagnostic) scanner tool and found some fault codes.  Then out came the repair manual to look for details – any surprises that might keep me from being able to perform the work (like a need for a specialty tool I don’t have) and for the manufactures recommendations of the replacement parts.  Then I jumped online and found the parts needed from my local auto parts chain.  I was able to order the parts and get them shipped for free by getting them sent to the parts store.  To my surprise, they actually contacted me that very night and said the parts were ready for pickup!    Unfortunately by the time I got the parts in hand, it was late and already dark so I wasn’t able to perform the actual work that night, but had I gone the mechanic route, I would still have been dead-in-the-water so that was no big deal.

The next day after work I threw on the grubby clothes, opened up the tool box and got to work. An hour and a half later everything was buttoned up and my truck was running like a top!  Total out of pocket expenses $73.86.  When was the last time you got your broken car back on the road for less than 75 bucks?

Now, I am not a mechanic. I have NO formal training in regards to automobiles.  But I do know how to read instructions and when all else fails search for You Tube videos on a particular subject.  And over the years I have invested in tools and manuals and things that allow me to do this kind of work.  But my point is, if I can do this you can too.  It’s not rocket science, its following directions.  It’s no more difficult than say following a recipe in a cookbook.  Sure, it may be grungier and possibly more physically demanding, but it isn’t any more difficult.

And let me tell you, the personal satisfaction I felt when I went for a test drive and found everything to be functioning as it was supposed to be was priceless! I honestly wish everyone could experience that same feeling, it is good for the soul.

As far as I’m concerned it was a win all the way around – I added to my personal skill level, I saved at least a hundred bucks (if not more) by not going to the mechanic, I got my automobile back on the road faster and I avoided a lot of stress by not having to deal with getting rides to and from work and to and from the mechanic’s shop and not having to pay the additional costs of having the work done for me.  And on top of it all, I got a nice confidence boost and a feeling of satisfaction.  The thing about this type of work is that once you get a few tasks under your belt, the next time your ride starts acting up your mind will turn to “what can I do to fix this” instead of “who can I find to fix this for me”, or “how am I going to afford to get this fixed”.  It all helps solidify the preparedness mindset, and it was worth every minute of it!

I’m tellin’ you folks, self reliance is a wonderful thing.  It doesn’t have to be car repairs, it can be anything.  Fixing a leaky faucet, cleaning out your rain gutters, even something as simple as painting an accent wall will bring you personal satisfaction in a way that handing over your hard-earned cash never will.  Even if it takes you twice as long and you make mistakes along the way, in the long run it will be well worth the effort you put into it.  So the next time you’ve got some trouble that needs fixin’, do yourself a favor and do it yourself!


Thanks for reading,



It’s embarrassing to admit, but the other day I suffered from a complete lack of preparedness. As someone whose profession involves emergency preparedness and safety I should have known better.  I should have made provisions, but a seemingly mundane “oops” moment derailed my entire day and left me in a mental funk, beating myself up over my failure.  Don’t let this happen to you.

It’s easy to get caught up in the flashy stuff when you delve into preparedness, but when the S#!+ hasn’t yet hit the fan it’s the everyday stuff that is more likely to rise up and bite you in the rear. It doesn’t usually take a monumental disaster to give you a bad day, just enough of a glitch to throw your plans out of whack.  In my case, a spare truck key stashed in my satchel would have saved the day.  That’s it – an easily accessible spare key would have saved me hours of aggravation and stress.

The silver lining to all this is that it opened my eyes to some really obvious gaps in my own preparedness. By happenstance and sheer luck I was able to get myself out of this situation with nothing more than a bad mood and the loss of a couple hours of my time, but things could have gone much worse.  However you can bet this particular thing won’t happen to me again as I’ve set forth on a plan of correction – simply a spare key, a hide-a-key box and a set of jumper cables.  Will this save me from all other mishaps? Of course not.  I’m simply doing a process of elimination in an effort to do better in the future.

Really that’s the best any of us can do. No matter how prepared you are or hope to be, nobody can be prepared for all things at all times.  It’s no use beating yourself up when your preparedness efforts come up short, we must simply learn from our mistakes and adjust accordingly.

Preparedness has no finish line; it’s a lifelong journey and a mindset. Do the best you can with what you’ve got and learn from your mistakes.  If you can remember to do those two things consistently, over time the “oops” moments will be few and far between.

Thanks for reading!


The Prepared Home Analysis, part 1

Today we’ll dig a little more in-depth with the safety analysis of your home. However, for today’s portion we aren’t even going to step foot inside, this is about the potential hazards that you might face before you get to your front door.  As I mentioned in an earlier post, preparedness comes in layers so let’s get started peeling back the furthermost outside layer shall we?

Let’s start at your street-side border, facing the front of your house. The idea here is to visually inspect the area looking for any potential hazards, but do you know what you are looking for?   We’ll take some baby steps…  First, look for any trip hazards.  Slips, trips, and falls constitute the majority of general accidents. This can be nearly anything – from a raised portion of sidewalk, a loose stair tread, kids’ toys, pets’ toys, and general debris such as fallen branches.  And that’s just the stuff you can trip over.  Slipping hazards are equally hazardous but even harder to find.  Puddles, oil and other automotive fluids on your driveway, wet leaves, ice spots, a forgotten ball left in the grass…  all these and more can have you on your backside faster than you can imagine.

Once you’ve made note of these hazards, fix them. Most of this stuff is easily remedied, with the possible exception of raised concrete caused by tree roots or freeze/thaw cycles although even that isn’t as big a problem as most people think it is.  Pick up any easily movable debris and get it out of the path of travel.  If you have fluid leaks on your driveway, use some cleaner and a push broom (or pressure washer if you have access to one) and clean it enough to get rid of the slickness of it.   Yes, you’ll most likely still have discoloration on the concrete but at least if you step in it you won’t have your feet slipping out from under you.

If you have seasonal hazards – an icy patch or a puddle that never seems to dry up, you can use portable barriers to encourage yourself and others to walk around the area. And by portable barriers I’m not talking about traffic cones or barricades like you see in road work, I don’t think everyone’s home needs to look like a construction zone in the name of safety.  What I mean is something you can put in that spot during the appropriate season, such as an assortment of plants in pots, exterior holiday decorations, statuary, or even lawn signs such as those you see in every election cycle.  Basically you just want something that people will walk around so they don’t walk through the hazard.

If you do have concrete that is causing problems and is potentially hazardous there are options. Not a lot of options, but they are out there.  First obviously would be to replace the concrete but in most instances this can be very expensive, even if you are a DIY’er.  At the low cost end of the spectrum, take a can of bright spray paint and just mark the raised (or sunken) area so it will grab people’s attention.  A few middle of the road “fixes” are using concrete, grout or even asphalt patch to “bridge” the different levels together.  While this is generally better than nothing, these repairs will fail.  Maybe not tomorrow or next week, but do not expect long lasting repairs from this method.  In my opinion the best thing to do if you don’t want spray painted walks and don’t want the burden or the expense to replace a walk or driveway is to have the hazards ground down.  This can be done DIY style, but it takes some pretty serious equipment to pull it off.  Many concrete contractors will do this work – especially if they are hungry for work– for a pretty low cost.  One such contractor did this type of work for one of my facilities for $12 per grind.  He was able to remediate about 30 potential trip hazards in a single day.

OK, now that we’ve dealt with trips, slips and falls the next thing to look at is basic security. Do you have a working porch light?  Do you have any other exterior lights on the front of your home?  If so, check to make sure all the bulbs are good.  There are a few easy upgrades that will make your exterior lighting even better, such as motion detectors or dust-to-dawn photocells that will turn your lights on and off automatically.  While having lights on your home will not eliminate break-ins, it will discourage many crooks which is a good thing to do no matter what type of neighborhood you live in.

Next, look at your front door.  How is your lockset?  At minimum you should have a deadbolt – a deadbolt and a standard entry lockset adds a little extra protection, as do internal door guards or flip latches, although we’re getting a little ahead of ourselves with those items…  How about a peep-hole in your door?  If you don’t have one, you should.  They are cheap and extremely easy to install.  Quite honestly, doors are a weak link, even with good locks.  Door security is a big topic and these items just scratch the surface, but I will return to doors in a stand-alone post later down the line.

Now you should look at your ground floor windows. Do they have locks?  If they don’t have locks attached to the frame, pick up some thumb-screw locks for cheap and put them on every ground floor window.  Even if you have factory locks on your windows, the extra protection of the thumb-screw locks is not a bad idea.  If you really want to ramp up the ground floor security, a security film on all the glass is relatively inexpensive added insurance but doesn’t detract from the aesthetic of your home the way bars or security shutters can.  Another area to assess is the general landscaping.  Do you have trees, bushes or shrubs that block your view into your immediate exit-zone?  Or do you have things that block, or even partially block your view of the street as you exit your driveway?  These are both potential hazards and should be dealt with immediately.  Likewise, you don’t want anything that allows a hiding place for ne’er-do-wells and allows them visual screening from the neighbors or passers-by.

It is also a good practice to look at your home through “burglar’s eyes”. In other words, what can be seen from the street that would entice someone to break into your home?  If you can see a nice big flat-screen TV mounted to the wall from the sidewalk, it is going to grab some unwanted attention.  Likewise, keeping your garage door open with bikes, golf clubs, or tools in plain site is just asking for those things to grow legs and walk away.  The idea is to keep a low profile and avoid making your home a target.

Now that you’ve looked at slip, trip & fall hazards and general, basic security precautions, we’ll check out a couple more things. The next thing you want to check for is fire hazards.  Piles of leaves, lumber and other flammable items should not be stacked up against your home, ever.  If you have rain gutters, make sure they get cleaned out regularly as they can become combustible. If you have PVC/vinyl gutters this is especially important because a debris fire can and will melt gutters and downspouts which can cause further injury.  If you are in a dry area, make sure you don’t let tree branches hang below 6’ above ground to stop a grass fire from getting into the tree canopy.  If you have a fire place or wood stove, make sure that you have a spark arrestor on your chimney and that it and the chimney itself get cleaned at least once a year if you use the fireplace.

OK, there you have it. That wasn’t so hard now, was it?  The next step once you’ve completed the above is to simply repeat it until you’ve made similar assessments to all sides of your home.  Once you’ve gone all the way around your home and followed the basic steps, you are already in better shape than you were and your home is going to be a safer place.

As I’ve said before, there is no way to completely eliminate every single possible hazard in your life, but by simply being aware of potential dangers and taking a few simple steps to eliminate those you find you’ve seriously decreased your odds of an untoward event affecting your life.

Next time, we’ll start poking around inside the house to see what danger lurks and what you can do about it.

Thanks for reading,